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We will counsel you on your unspeakable concerns.
National Competition on Worries!
Let me introduce you to today's guests.
The famous lyricist who created many hit songs, Kim Ea Na!
Hello.
Na Eun and Bo Mi of Apink!
(Na Eun and Bo Mi of Apink)
They're so pretty.
Kim Dong Hyun!
Hello.
The winner of a hip hop contest,
Rapper Hangzoo!
(Hangzoo, the talented rapper)
(It's nice to meet you all.)
Ea Na appeared on a dating reality show.
She made a lot of great quotes.
She described each of the cast members...
in a very unique way.
- I really enjoyed the show. - Really?
Yes. I even went to the restaurant run by one of the cast members.
- You did? - Yes.
- She has a witty way with words. - Exactly. Pleas show us.
How would you describe Dong Yeob?
As for him, I've always thought he's a pleasant philosopher.
- "A pleasant philosopher"? - Yes.
It sounds so cool. "A pleasant philosopher".
Are you sure you didn't mean, "an erotic philosopher"?
- He has great insight. - I see.
But he never shows off or lectures other people.
He only makes jokes.
On a different show, she described me...
as a man with strong center.
- So I thought... - You liked that, right?
- He liked it. - Which one do you prefer?
A man with strong center or a pleasant philosopher?
(Which nickname could Dong Yeob prefer?)
A pleasant man with strong center.
(He really is an insightful comedian.)
If you work with Apink, what kind of lyrics...
would you like to write for them?
I'd like to write a sweet and sad breakup song...
- for them. - For Na Eun and Bo Mi.
- I think it'd suit them. - They always sang love songs.
- That's right. - Our new song is a breakup song.
- Is it? I missed the opportunity. - Yes.
We showed our innocent, feminine side...
through our performances until now.
This time, we're going to show you an unexpected side of us.
All right.
(Please show us.)
("I'm So Sick" by Apink)
(It's exciting.)
(The powerful performance unlike their innocent image)
(No feelings left, so baby, bye, bye, bye)
(It feels like the song will become a big hit.)
- They're good. - While they were dancing,
Dong Hyun made an unusual look.
- Me? - On a different show,
- he danced Apink's dance. - Really?
When I was on the military TV show, I met them once.
- Didn't you visit our base? - Yes, we did.
I dressed as a woman and danced to "No No No".
- Really? - How about you dance with Apink?
- Please show us. - Dance together.
- Dance together. - Do you...
- remember the choreography? - Can you do that?
He just asked if they remember the choreography.
Why would he ask that? "Do you remember the choreography?"
- I won the contest. - That's funny.
("No No No" performed by Apink and Kim Dong Hyun)
My goodness.
(My body still remembers it.)
Dong Hyun is doing well.
(Heavy)
He's good.
(Dancing awkwardly)
- He's really good. - Right.
Oh, I made a mistake.
(He would've been sad if he hadn't been asked to dance.)
Here we go!
(The climax of the song)
(He knows the formation and moves.)
(Behind the pretty girls,)
(there's a tough girl.)
- Please give them a hand. - Thank you.
(Dong Hyun is a dancing king.)
Hangzoo, this is your first appearance on Hello, right?
Yes. In fact, I haven't appeared on many shows on public networks.
- I see. - "Public networks"?
- It's the same for me. - So...
I feel like I'm a non-celebrity.
I'm honored. When my family get together...
Although I won the rap contest,
- they don't listen to rap music. - I understand.
- Right. - If I appear on a show like this,
I can make them prouder.
- Say something to your family. - Tell them you're on this show.
My mom and dad are interested in my work,
so they like rap music. But my uncle...
His uncle.
(You're watching this, right?)
Whenever you saw me on holidays, you said I wouldn't be successful...
if I pursue a rap career with pierced ears at the age of 33.
I make more money than you think.
I'm here on Hello right now because of my rap career.
(Hangzoo, we're rooting for you.)
Is there any questions you want to avoid on public networks?
Since I'm a rapper, I'm asked to do freestyle rap on every show.
I feel pressured.
- Of course. - You should show us right now.
(Sighing)
(Drop the beat.)
(The beatbox master who will help Hangzoo out)
(I start rapping as the beat started)
(And this is freestyle rap)
(I'm getting mesmerized.)
(I'm not like other rappers)
(My name is Hangzoo)
(Just like Tae Gyun, I'm like a dishtowel)
(That gets rid of all the germs)
(Just like Yeong Ja)
(My mom's name is also Yeong Ja)
(The beatbox master is running out of breath.)
- Dong Yeob - I think that's enough.
(Okay! Let's stop here.)
(We respect you.)
He's good.
Today, we have three keywords as always.
Let's find out. Please show us the keywords.
Here are three keywords. "My Face Makes My Life Hard".
- "The Nomad Woman". - "I Didn't Make Him Do It".
"My Face Makes My Life Hard".
There's a role for Na Eun to play in this story.
A lady in the neighborhood.
- A nosy neighbor. - I see.
- There are two of them. - Okay.
Hello. I'm a 39-year-old man and I've been married for a year.
My wife is three years younger than me.
There's something we hear whenever we go out.
A nosy lady.
"You two look so sweet together."
"How much older is your sister than you?"
(Bo Mi is embarrassed about her.)
"What are you talking about?"
"She's obviously his mom, not his sister. Am I right?"
She's not the same person.
She's a different person.
- It's Gyeongsang Province dialect. - Yes. "What are you talking about?"
"What are you talking about?"
"She's obviously his mom, not his sister. Am I right?"
People often think we're a mom and her son.
My wife said, "We're ready to order."
"Please give me pork cutlet."
"Okay. What would your son like?"
(He's her husband who is three years older than her.)
- He's three years older than her. - Exactly.
"Excuse me. He's my husband, not my son."
"Gosh. Darn it."
She swears.
(His wife gets annoyed and swears.)
I was surprised too.
"Honey, don't let it bother you. It'd only cause you distress."
"Gosh. You must be happy because you look young."
She takes her anger out on me.
What worries me more...
"Honey, what are you doing there instead of sleeping?"
"It's 3am right now. Are you eating something?"
(Chewing)
"The thought of what happened... She called you my son."
"I'm so angry. I can't stand it. I'll eat it all."
She's stressed out.
(She relives stress by binge eating.)
- Oh, boy. - She relieved stress by eating...
- and gained 15kg in 1 year. - My goodness.
- She gained a lot of weight. - Still, she's my loving wife,
not my mom or sister.
I've been dealing with strangers and my stressed wife.
Now, I'm exhausted.
Please help me resolve my problem.
- Dong Hyun, what do you think? - Maybe because...
we dated for a long time,
when we go out with my mom,
many people think she's my younger sister.
- They think you two are siblings? - Yes.
- And that stresses you out? - No, I'm not stressed.
But my girlfriend seems a bit upset.
She hates it when people think she looks like you?
That's why...
She said she felt like her chin got longer because of me.
I didn't understand why she said that.
- She took it out on you. - Yes.
How about you, Ea Na?
Have you ever felt hurt because of what others said?
It didn't hurt my feelings, but I got stressed out.
I was once asked about my plan of having children on a TV show.
I said my husband and I weren't planning to have a child then.
After I said that,
I read a lot of comments on the internet.
"I'm sure they have a fertility problem."
- That's crazy. - Some said,
"Obviously, her husband has a problem."
If I had actually had a problem...
(It would've hurt her feelings so much.)
What if it had been the case? I didn't understand...
why they said such mean things...
- about our future plan. - Exactly.
- Many people can be so mean. - It was shocking.
I know.
Hangzoo, has anything like that happened to you before?
I have a similar experience. People often...
post their photos taken with celebrities on social media.
They told me I looked really handsome in person,
but when I checked their posts,
they said, "I can see why his name is Hangzoo."
- It has nothing to do with my face. - That's mean.
I have the same experience.
He took a photo with me.
He said he was a big fan of mine and complimented me.
But he wrote, "He didn't look as tough as he looked on TV."
"I think I can beat him."
- My gosh. - "I think I can beat him."
Men like to show off.
- Right. - He looked a bit muscular.
- He challenged Dong Hyun. - I think that's why.
Let's meet our guest.
Let's see how young he looks,
why his wife is stressed out, and what stresses him out.
Let's meet our guest.
(The audience suddenly buzzes.)
Hello, Hello
(The guest appears.)
(Nam Man Hyun)
(Looking at him closely...)
(for a long time...)
Welcome.
You look different from what we expected.
- I'm sorry. - How old...
Everyone, don't make such a disappointed face.
When he came out, they all looked so confused.
"He doesn't look young."
- Could you take off your glasses? - Okay.
(Right. He may look younger without glasses.)
- He doesn't look that young. - How old...
- How old did you say he is? - Yes.
- 39. - I'm 39.
- 39? - Right.
- I haven't seen anyone... - He doesn't look so young.
who looks his age like he does...
for a long time.
(My goodness.)
Is it true that people think you and your wife...
are a mother and her son?
That's crazy.
I'm 39, and my wife is 36.
My wife is younger than me.
But when we go to the market, the ladies there say,
"She must be his elder sister who is much older than him."
Did it happen only once? Or do you hear that often?
We hear that very often.
We once went to a hospital.
We were asked if we really are a married couple.
- Why? - Pardon?
- Why? - Why did you go to the hospital?
They thought I was her son.
We went to an ob-gyn.
That's why they asked if you were her husband.
That's right. However, at first, my wife...
laughed it off.
But as we heard it too often,
now, she reacts to that every time it happens,
and she gets angry.
And that stresses me out too.
How does your wife show her anger?
An elderly lady asked...
if we were a mom and her son.
She said, "He's not my son. He's my husband!"
And then she stormed out.
- Did she fight with that lady? - Yes.
(Oh, my gosh.)
- Recently, we went to a nail salon. - Yes.
While I was out for fresh air,
the staff and another customer...
- asked my wife... - What did they ask?
about our relationship.
One of them asked if I was her son saying her son is in college too.
She asked which college I was going to.
People in that neighborhood are weird.
- Why would they ask that? - How did your wife react?
She said, "Darn. He's not my son!"
- She swore again? - "He's my husband."
In your letter, you wrote that your wife relieves stress by eating.
Sometimes I feel that she's gone at night.
Then I see her eating something while standing in the kitchen.
She buys some crackers and jellies without letting me know...
and eats 10 bags of them when she's home alone.
- 10 bags? - 10 bags of jellies?
- She eats 10 bags at once? - Yes.
(She eats it all at once.)
- My goodness. - However,
maybe his wife simply likes to eat snacks,
but he thinks that she eats a lot because she's stressed out.
- Maybe she just likes to eat. - Right.
Could it be that you just assume that she's stressed?
Since she ate that much,
she gained about 15kg in 1 year.
- She gained a lot of weight. - Of course.
She became stressed out,
so she started taking medicine for headaches.
It seems two pills are not effective enough.
She takes four pills, and if it doesn't work,
she takes two more pills while I'm sleeping.
She shouldn't take too many pills.
It's bad for her health.
- She'd feel unwell next day. - That's right.
She's a little out of it because of the medicine.
(I'm worried about her health too.)
(Oh, no.)
Let's meet his wife. Hello.
(How old does she look to be mistaken as his mom?)
(Curious)
- Hello. - Hello.
Welcome.
Are you stressed out just as your husband said?
Yes. When we go to the market, some elderly people...
ask if we're a mom and her son or siblings.
- That makes me so upset, - I see.
and when I can't control my anger,
I lose my temper and swear.
When you hear people say that,
you could say, "He may look young, "
"but he's my husband."
"He chased after me because he had a big crush on me."
"That's how we got married."
Can't you just laugh it off like this?
I can't do that.
- You can't? - I can't.
What happened at the nail salon?
At the nail salon, the customer next to me said...
that my husband seemed around his son's age...
and asked, "Which college does your son go to?"
I got so angry and said, "Darn. He's not my son."
(Darn. He's not my son.)
I ended up swearing at her.
(She swears so naturally.)
She swears so naturally.
I got surprised.
Anyway, it was them who were in the wrong.
Your husband didn't do anything wrong.
- Right. - Then why do you get mad at him?
He was supposed to side with me,
but he sided with that woman, so I was upset.
- How did he side with her? - Pardon?
He told me to hold back my anger.
I was upset because he took her side.
Do you think he took her side...
because he stopped you?
Yes.
Then what do you want him to do?
I want him to encourage me.
Encourage you?
"Darn. Good job."
"You're good at swearing." Like this?
- But that's not right. - Do you want him not to stop you?
I want him not to stop me.
I fully understand her.
- Why? - It's because...
People were rude to her.
- Those who said things like that. - Yes.
He could've told them not to be disrespectful to his wife.
She must've felt like she was alone in a battle.
That makes sense.
I didn't want to make it worse by getting involved in the fight.
- Right. - She could've laughed it off.
So you have never taken her side before?
That's right.
- If that's the case... - She must've been disappointed.
- she must've been disappointed. - I can see that.
I understand why she's upset.
Well... I just...
I just wanted to avoid the situation.
- You wanted the moment to end. - I wanted it to end.
Just as she said,
if he gets angry for his wife,
his wife would hold back her anger...
and feel good.
But if he gets angry whenever it happens...
anywhere they go,
it could be a problem as well.
(It's not easy.)
Have you ever made any effort...
to prevent misunderstandings like this?
I didn't put on makeup before.
I didn't even apply moisturizer.
But these days, I apply moisturizer, foundation, and lipstick.
I also wear a dress when I go shopping with my husband.
However, even when I spruce myself up,
some people think I'm his mom.
Even when you wear a dress?
Yes. When they thought I was his mom, I felt really upset.
We prepared the couple's photos to see how they look...
when they go out together.
- Really? - Let's look at their photos.
- She made a lot of efforts, so... - Let's take a look.
In this photo, her husband looks so young because of his fringe.
- He slicked back his hair. - I like how he parted his hair.
(Did he part his hair like this in an effort to look old?)
Seeing those photos, I see why people misunderstand them.
This is what I think you should do.
When people around you two seem suspicious,
and you feel like they're going to say that again, you could say,
- He could call her "Honey". - "I'll be back after a smoke."
- "My beautiful wife." - That's a good idea.
Wherever you go,
- Exactly. - Before people say something.
you could say, "Don't worry. I'll treat you to a nice dinner."
- Right. - If you express your love,
- people would know. - That's right.
- Right? - That's a great idea.
You could kiss her deeply, not just a peck on her cheek.
(While you're at it, kiss her deeply.)
You could exaggerate it.
- To show them... - Can't you try that?
Have you not tried it before?
No, I haven't.
Why didn't you... Why do you not show that you're her husband?
Since Andong is a small town,
my father might hear it...
- But she's your wife... - Why do you worry about it?
While I was working busily, he called me to say,
"How could you kiss on the street at your age?"
But still, what people say hurts your wife's feelings,
and she gets angry at you when you two go home.
That must be stressful. Can't you do it for your wife?
Okay. I'll try.
Good. It's over.
(The problem has been resolved.)
- His problem has been resolved. - That's right.
I have a question. He said you relieve stress by eating.
Do you eat a lot to relieve stress?
Or do you eat only because you feel hungry?
No. I relieve stress by eating.
What do you usually eat at night? Bibimbap?
Tell us what you eat.
I want to know if you eat the same food as I do.
I eat whatever is in the fridge. Fried eggs, for example.
I eat about five bags of chips.
- In one sitting? - That's too much.
And I finish 10 different kinds of...
jelly sometimes.
At times, I eat tangsuyuk, pizza,
and fried chicken at the same time.
- At the same time? - That's right.
You finish all three of them?
Does that help relieve your stress?
Yes, definitely.
Isn't it a vicious circle?
It makes you gain weight, which makes you depressed again.
Food is expensive these days.
Tangsuyuk and fried chicken...
cost a lot. Pizza costs 20 dollars too.
My wife is not working at the moment.
If I give my wife...
around 100 dollars for example,
she spends 70 to 80 dollars on food.
In the end, she ends up not being able to pay electricity bills...
or phone bills.
If I give her money so that she can pay phone bills,
she spends it on food.
Is it true? You spend so much money on food...
that you can't pay your utility bills?
Yes.
I don't have enough money.
I like your honest answer.
She's very straightforward.
Do you eat so much because you're stressed out?
- Yes. - Think about it.
Imagine people in Andong watch this...
and realize that they're stressing you out...
and stop saying those things to you.
Then you won't be stressed out anymore, right?
- Yes. - Then you'll stop eating so much?
- Yes. - Are you sure?
- Yes. - Once people stop saying that,
- will you stop? Seriously? - Yes.
If what you say is right,
you must have been slim before you met your husband...
because you weren't stressed out then.
I didn't even weigh 50kg then.
- In my early 20s. - In your early 20s?
How long have you been married?
- It's been about a year. - Then...
what about in your early 30s before your marriage?
You weighed 50kg in your 20s. What about in your early 30s?
I gained a lot of weight.
It doesn't make sense.
- It's strange. - You weren't stressed out then.
Why did you eat a lot? Because you wanted to?
Back then...
When did you start swearing?
I've sworn since I was a kid.
(Since she was a kid)
Really?
That's why it sounded so natural.
I think I know what's going on here.
Everyone is the same.
I used to smoke three packs of cigarettes a day.
I used to be a heavy smoker.
And I don't think I should tell you when I started smoking.
To continue smoking, I kept coming up with excuses.
I told myself that I smoked...
to relieve my stress.
But in reality, I just wanted to smoke.
You say you eat to relieve your stress,
but you might be just using that as an excuse.
(Are you sure you're not just using that as an excuse?)
Your older brother is here, right?
- Yes. - You've heard what's going on.
- Right. - Do people really...
misunderstand their relationship a lot?
Yes, they do.
When they go to a restaurant,
waitresses often think...
they're mother and son.
It makes my sister-in-law angry.
Do you think your younger brother looks younger than his age?
I don't really think so.
Neither do we.
Maybe because she's a bit chubby,
people think she looks older.
Do you think that stresses your brother out?
Yes. It looks like he's bothered a lot.
When my sister-in-law gets offended,
she swears even if there are people around.
- Even when you're there? - Yes.
It must have shocked you.
After a few times, I got used to it.
(He got used to it.)
Do you think your sister-in-law takes it out on your brother?
She often takes it out on him in the car.
When my brother looks at other women without realizing it,
she gets angry.
- You mean women that pass by? - Yes.
"Go live with that woman."
"I'll let you go." She says stuff like that.
Your husband doesn't look like a flirty type.
He's rather shy.
You don't want him to look at other women at all?
Or did he really check other women out?
- Tell us what happened. - Did he whistle at them?
Because otherwise,
I don't understand why you'd get so angry.
I want him to just look at me.
I feel bad when he looks at other women.
Sometimes, even if my brother is driving,
she hits him.
- She hits him? - Yes.
- With you in the car? - Yes.
In a cute way like this?
No. It made the car shake.
- It made the car shake? - What?
She even touches the wheel.
(She even touches the wheel.)
That's dangerous.
So I try to avoid getting in their car.
It doesn't matter whether the woman is pretty or not.
She just doesn't want me to look at other women.
She gets angry even when I look at an old lady.
Since she started gaining weight,
her self-esteem seems to have become low.
You said she becomes jealous...
regardless of woman's ages. Then I could make her jealous too.
Yes. I think she'll nag me at home.
- Can I... - No, not you.
(Yeong Ja is a 3rd gender.)
(Hilarious)
She's safe.
I'm less attractive than an old lady?
It's because I like you.
(She likes Yeong Ja.)
(Is that why?)
What else did she do out of jealousy?
Even when a female friend calls me or texts me...
to tell me she's getting married,
my wife thinks she's seducing me.
- Even though she's getting married? - Yes.
But it's not okay because she is a woman.
- It's not okay? - No.
So when a female friend gets in touch,
my wife sends pictures of us to her.
- To your friend? - Yes.
While I'm in the bathroom,
she sends my friend our wedding photos.
Randomly? Out of nowhere?
Yes, then she writes, "He's married."
"Stop messaging him."
And then she deletes the messages.
(She deletes the messages.)
Because she knows I'll get angry.
At first, I didn't think it was a worry,
but now, I do.
- It's become a different matter. - Right.
- Well... - It's a serious worry.
Did you really message a woman you don't know?
Yes.
But she was just telling him she was getting married.
Why did you send her your wedding photos?
He's mine now. I don't want her to message him.
- I wanted to tell her that. - You didn't send it to tell her...
- you'll be at the wedding too? - No.
(The 2 of us will be at the wedding.)
He's mine now.
(Determined)
Did something happen that made you...
- so jealous? - Did something happen?
Nothing happened.
But I've seen many cases like that.
So I'm worried he might leave me.
That's why I suspect him.
In other words, you don't trust him.
No.
- Gosh. - That's the biggest problem.
That's the problem.
(Their biggest problem is mistrust.)
To be honest,
if you think all women will seduce your husband,
you're being disrespectful to them.
Everyone has a taste...
- and moral standards. - That's right.
A woman tells your husband she's getting married,
and you think she's seducing him.
You're being disrespectful...
to all women in the world.
They look better than me.
- Sorry? - They're prettier than me.
Does every man fall in love with a woman...
just because she is beautiful?
They fall in love with someone...
for many reasons that are hard to explain.
I'm sure there are many women who look better than you,
but your husband must have married you for a reason.
- Yes. - You should look at it like that.
What are you most worried about?
If this goes on, what would be the biggest problem?
She once collapsed from stress.
- Gosh. - She reached her limit.
She collapsed because of lack of sleep.
By continuing to criticize herself,
she is not only giving herself a hard time...
but also me a hard time.
You become so tired the next day if you can't sleep well.
I hope she'll take control of herself...
and feel more confident about herself.
Why is her self-esteem so low?
The thing is,
when she was little,
her father passed away. She was raised by her grandma.
After her grandma passed away...
(Choking)
(He can't continue.)
Oh, my.
- He must love her so much. - He's so nice.
- He's really nice. - Yes.
(His wife starts to cry too.)
- He's really nice. - Yes.
Will you tell us?
(She is choking.)
All right.
My mom left home when I was little.
I was raised by my grandma, then when I was in eighth grade,
I lost everyone...
over just one night.
I lost my grandmother, grandfather, and father.
They passed out all at once when I was in eighth grade.
So I went around with my uncle...
and sold rice puffs, steamed bun, and steamed corn.
I've tried everything.
- You started to sell those things. - Yes.
My uncle said a girl didn't need to study more...
once she graduated from middle school.
- Your uncle said that. - So I started working,
and then I met my husband.
I didn't want to miss him,
so I married him.
He's crying while listening to his wife's story.
This is more than just love.
We wondered how he could...
put up with everything,
but he did because he knew what she had been through, right?
- Yes. - Right.
But you can't go on living like this.
That's why you came out here today.
Because it happens a lot,
she always says, "You must be happy that you look young."
"Call me Mom, Man Hyun."
Does she say self-deprecating things too?
- In a sarcastic way? - Yes.
It's not like I received good education.
But she says, "I only got to graduate middle school."
"You must be happy that you went to high school."
"You don't like me because I'm fat, do you?"
"Find a slim woman." Like this.
- She keeps this on. - Yes.
So this is all you two talk about.
Yes, that's most of the things we talk about.
Why do you give him a hard time when he loves you?
What kind of a marriage did you dream of when you married her?
What marriage life did you dream of?
I wanted to give her a family.
I have a family,
but she doesn't have a family of her own.
So...
(He becomes emotional again.)
It made you sad.
It's like what happens in a drama.
- Did you want to become her family? - Yes.
(She's barely crying.)
Do you think your husband gave you a family?
Yes.
You got a father-in-law.
- Mother-in-law too. - You have a mother-in-law.
- Yes. - He did everything for you then.
Yes. He did a lot of things for me.
- Then why do you do that? - And you are still worried?
Yes. I am very worried.
- Are you worried he'd leave you? - Yes.
Do you have no confidence in yourself?
I don't.
Because I am fat...
and most men want slim women.
When he looks at them, I get anxious.
All right. We get that.
Let's say we understand...
your disrespect on other women.
But thinking that the man who chose to be your husband...
would fall for another woman...
and leave you for her...
is belittling the man who chose you.
When you first met him, you were quite big, right?
Not as big as now, but quite big.
Yes.
And yet he still liked you.
But I am bigger now.
Then go back to being however big you were then.
You can just go back to that state then.
(But I am okay with it even if you're fat.) subtitles ripped and synced by riri13
If there is something you want to tell her, please tell her now.
When we first met,
we didn't care about each other's backgrounds.
We decided to live together because we loved each other.
I hope you stop minding others' words...
about how your husband looks younger than you.
I hope you will always smile brightly.
I hope you will...
(They become emotional.)
He got emotional again.
Why are you so tearful when you are from Andong?
(He's from a historic city.)
I only love you, so don't worry about anything.
I want us to live happily.
My goodness.
(That was very touching.)
- It's so touching. - Gosh.
- They are meant to be. - It's the love of the century.
I got more emotional.
A lot of people are crying.
I hope she won't forget it.
I've been married for 12 years.
I am more experienced when it comes to marriage.
Marriage is not the fruit of your relationship.
It's a continuation of your relationship.
Because he's your man now, you treat him badly.
I hope you remember what it felt like when you were dating him.
Let's vote whether it's a worry or not.
If you think it's a worry, please press the button.
I think it's a worry.
I think it'a problem that can be solved easily. So it's not a worry.
I think it's a worry.
She's a charming woman.
But she keeps belittling herself that she's not good enough.
If she doesn't have the will to save herself,
no matter how hard her husband tries, she can't be saved.
If you think it must've been hard for the husband,
please press the button.
(What does the audience think?)
5, 4, 3, 2 ,1.
Stop.
If there is something you want to tell him, say it now.
Tell him what you want.
When I tell you that I love you,
please answer back loudly with certainty.
I will change my behavior.
I love you.
Let's see how many votes he got.
Please show us the result.
(The result)
"My Face Makes My Life Hard".
He got over 100 votes.
Out of 200,
(How many people sympathized with the husband?)
how many votes did he get?
146 voes.
(He got 146 votes.)
Actually,
our team has been thinking about what we could do...
to help his wife.
We thought we could teach her how to make herself look better.
We brought in...
Korea's best makeup artist.
Please come on out, Ms. Woo Hyun Joong.
Her husband is three years older.
When she stands next to her husband, she needs to look obviously younger.
All right.
I will try to transform her.
- We will trust you. Thank you. - All right.
- We will see you soon. - Thank you.
(The makeover begins.)
(She delicately applies makeup on the wife.)
(How did she change?)
Everyone.
Aren't you curious to see how she changed?
- We are curious. - Yes.
Korea's best makeup artist gave her a makeover.
- That used to be her. - That's before the makeover.
Please call her name.
In a lovely way.
Kyung Hee, please come to me.
(How did she change?)
(She's perfectly transformed.)
(She looks like the cute comedian, Kim Shin Young.)
- My goodness. - She looks her age now.
(She finally looks 36 years old.)
(She clearly looks different.)
How do you feel? Why are you crying?
- Why are you crying? - Your makeup will be ruined.
- Give her a hug. - Give her a hug.
(Give her a hug.)
Why did you suddenly burst into tears?
I got overwhelmed when I saw my husband.
- Were you happy? - Yes.
- She really loves him. - You were so happy.
I'm getting tearful.
When you see them in Andong,
please ask, "Are you married? How long have you been married?"
Please ask them those. Okay?
- How long have you been married? - How long have you been married?
Should we take a photo of you like this?
- All right. - One.
1, 2, 3.
(We will cheer for your love.)
"The Nomad Woman".
Hello. I am the eldest daughter of three daughters.
I am a 34-year-old woman.
People around me say...
that my second sister is really amazing.
"Where is your sister at now? Where is she?"
"America? Japan? Australia?"
"I don't know."
"She said she was in Spain."
"My goodness. I envy your sister the most in this world."
"She's cool."
Of course, I envy her life too.
My sister is jobless at the moment.
She's been traveling the world for the past 10 years.
(For 10 years?)
That's why it's so frustrating...
and torturing for the family.
It was about four months after she left for Australia to learn English.
"Hey, I came back to Korea."
"But it's only been four months."
"Australia wasn't my type of country."
"I'm thinking of going to the Philippines."
"I am going to go there and live a new life."
- She came back in just two weeks. - What?
"I am going to China."
"I got a job in China. Isn't it amazing?"
She quit that job after two weeks.
My goodness.
"Come on, girl. You are already 32."
"You need to settle down and find work."
"I really found my path this time."
"I am going to India and meditate first."
She's been to the US, the UK,
France, Italy, Germany,
Spain, Austria, India, and so on.
She's been to countless countries.
Please help my sister to settle down in one place.
(She wants her sister to settle down in one place.)
I think her sister must be quite happy.
When you travel a lot as a young person,
you get to spend your later years,
happily looking at those photographs.
For that reason, old people encourage the young to travel.
- Right. - If your family can afford it,
you should travel as much as you can.
I'm envious.
I have a feeling that Hangzoo is...
It's just the impression.
I feel like you are banned from leaving the country.
- It's not like that, is it? - It's nothing like that.
I actually love traveling too.
But having a lot of money doesn't mean you can travel a lot.
Having a lot of time is the same. Some are just born with that life.
- Right. - So it's amazing.
Right. We all think she's great.
Why is her sister so worried?
Let's bring her in.
Please come on in.
(Who is worried about her sister who wanders around the world?)
(Yang Da Hyun)
How many countries has your sister been to?
It's uncountable.
She's got the itchy feet.
From the age of 22 to 32, she's been to...
the Philippines, Australia, China, Ireland,
Czech Republic, France...
- You can't count them all. - She's been all over the world.
It's as if she's on the run.
In a year, she's in Korea less than one month.
She studied ethics education.
Since she's smart, I thought she'd be a teacher right away.
- She majored in ethics education. - Ethics education.
She can become a teacher if she just takes the exam.
She studied for it only for a month and quit.
She said she was going to Australia on a working holiday visa.
I think that's when she opened her eyes to this lifestyle.
(That was the start.)
Isn't experiencing a lot of things while traveling good for her?
The problem is that despite of being full of passion, she lacks tenacity.
She always makes excuses...
and comes back to Korea soon.
When she went to Australia, she came back in just four months.
She came back from the Philippines in just two weeks.
In case of Ireland and China,
she came back in less than a year.
She comes back when she's about to learn something.
She worked for a Mexican corporation...
as an interpreter for a while,
and she worked as a hotel manager in Czech Republic.
She quit all those jobs in just a few months and returned.
(What's wrong with my sister?)
How does she afford to pay for all the travels?
- Right. That's what we wonder. - This is what we want to know.
- Right? - It's fine if she can afford it.
Dad pays for almost everything.
(Her dad pays for all her expenses.)
There are three girls in our family. And the youngest is in college.
When he's already burdened with her tuition,
he has to pay for my second sister's travel expenses...
because she can't seem to settle down in one place.
Her Chinese roommate is taking an MBA course,
and she now wants it too.
- She wants to take an MBA course. - Dad...
gave her 10,000 dollars to get started.
She didn't even finish one semester and came back to Korea.
(She said it was too tough.)
Are your parents well enough to pay for her expenses?
No. My dad used to be a high school teacher.
He's now retired. But because he has to support us,
he is running an English institution.
While other retired people go golfing...
and travel around the world with pension,
my dad works hard even on weekends.
He's working to pay for his daughter's travel expense.
- Because of her daughter. - Yes.
Actually, my parents are the most worried.
But they couldn't come here.
Whenever people ask what their second daughter is doing,
because they don't want to ruin her reputation,
they lie to others that she's working abroad.
They make it sound nice.
- They don't want people to know. - They would be embarrassed here.
- That's very understandable. - Right.
In the middle of the night, he would wake up and drink...
because he's upset about her. He says he would never marry...
if he's born again.
- Your father said that? - Yes.
Is it because of your sister or because of your mother?
(She's flustered.)
- Why doesn't he want to marry? - It's because of your sister.
- I guess so. - Right.
He said he wants her to just disappear from his sight.
(He wants her to disappear from his sight.)
It must've been so tough for him to say such a thing.
(This is a serious problem.)
In a way, you represent the whole family.
- Yes. - Right.
You hastily sent us the letter...
in the brief time your sister is in Korea.
It worked out great somehow.
She returned from India just four days ago.
- That's good. - Yes.
I was afraid she would leave again, so I hastily brought her here.
She was worried she would leave again.
She's someone who goes all around the world.
Somehow the timing was great that she returned from India recently.
- It's an honor for us to meet her. - Yes.
Let's meet her second sister.
Hello.
(Who has been wondering around the world for 10 years?)
- Hello. - Hello.
Weren't you surprised when you heard about this?
When your sister wrote to us about you and got chosen?
She was really worried about me.
So I came out here to hear what she has to say about me.
Since you just came back from India, greet us in their language.
(Please say hi in Indian.)
Namaste. That's all I know.
- Namaste. - Curry.
Gandhi.
- Gandhi. - Goodness.
You must've been to most of the countries.
I think I've flown more than 100 times.
(She's flown more than 100 times.)
(She flies more than 10 times a year.)
(My goodness.)
Can you tell us where you have been?
The US, the UK, France, Spain, Italy,
Czech Republic, Germany, Austria, Australia, India,
Hong Kong, Japan, Dominican Republic, Mexico,
Argentina... Where else?
- That's 15 countries. - Ireland, China. I've been to...
- about 20 countries. - I see.
- That's her. - Santiago.
(From Camino de Santiago, which is in the bucket list...)
(of many travelers...)
(to South America, which takes two days to get to,)
(she's been to many countries over the past 10 years.)
Incredible. You went on all these trips with your father's money.
- That's what's important. - Goodness.
Not 100 percent though.
Since my late 20s, I've been paying part of the expenses.
You've been to around 20 countries. What was your purpose?
My dream is to go around the world before I die.
That's why I began traveling by working in Australia.
Seeing the world was so exhilarating.
(She slowly got addicted to the wide world across the ocean.)
(I feel so happy.)
You must speak foreign languages quite well then.
She spoke Indian. "Namaste."
- That's one. - Right.
I speak just a little bit of English, Chinese, and Spanish.
Is there anyone in here who can speak a foreign language?
Can you talk to her?
- Chinese? - There's a foreigner.
Which language do you speak?
- You're from... - What is your language?
- English? - Please talk in English then.
She seems to be a native speaker.
(Somehow, it turned into an English listening test.)
- Hi. - Hi.
- How are you doing? - I'm okay.
I'm good. I'm so nervous. And you?
Me too.
I heard that you've been to European countries.
Have you ever been to Azerbaijan?
No. Sorry, I haven't been there.
Do you know where it is located?
- No. - No, sorry.
(She speaks in straight English.)
(They are bummed.)
It is located near Turkey. I recommend you.
Next time you travel, you can travel to Azerbaijan too.
Okay. Thanks.
I don't know about her,
but it's clear that she speaks English very well.
Yes. I am very surprised.
- By the way, Chinese... - Can anyone speak Chinese?
- There. - It's very diverse here.
How do you speak Chinese?
Are you Chinese? Or did you learn Chinese?
- I am Chinese. - Good.
- That's perfect. - Nice.
She has to talk to native speakers.
What is your impression on China?
I really like China.
I learned Chinese when I was in China.
She's good.
(She's good.)
What did she say? Is she good?
What did you talk about?
She said she travelled a lot in China.
- Is her pronunciation good too? - Yes.
(She can speak foreign languages.)
- She's good. - Right. It's all good.
According to your sister, you lack tenacity.
You just have passion.
Why did you return from the Philippines in two weeks?
I got homesick.
- In just two weeks? - Yes.
How about in Czech Republic?
I stayed there for three months.
A Korean hotel in Prague was hiring a manager, so I went there.
When I went there, it wasn't a hotel.
- It was like a company cafeteria. - You didn't like it.
- That's why. - Shouldn't you...
look into that before you leave?
(Shouldn't you be more thorough?)
(She's speechless.)
- She went to Australia. - Yes.
She said she was scared of big cockroaches.
She called me every day, and she actually came home.
- Cockroaches? - No way.
- My goodness. - But really.
Australian cockroaches are famous for their size.
- You'd know when you go there. - I know it too.
It's really big. Their cockroaches are about this big.
It's this big.
You can't catch them. There are so many of them.
You can catch them like this in Korea.
They don't die easily.
Their legs are big too.
You sound like you are very scared of them too.
They are really big.
I share her fear for it.
You came back from India four days ago.
How long did you stay there?
- Two days. - What?
- 2 days in India? - 2 days?
You went there to meditate.
I went there to find inner peace.
I went to...
learn how to meditate. There were all kinds of bugs.
Ants, cockroaches, and centipedes were everywhere.
I couldn't stand it, so I gave up and came back.
You can't go anywhere because of the insects.
Perhaps, you like flying.
I think she travels because of the in-flight meals.
- Yes. She gets to... - That's possible.
travel at airports.
Perhaps, she likes getting stamps on her passport.
(Is she obsessed about the stamps?)
(She's embarrassed.)
Is there a reason why you shouldn't be in Korea?
When I am in Korea, I feel suffocated.
Job market is not in good shape.
I think I am running away from my problems.
Aren't you worried about spending your father's money?
I am worried.
When she's here, people always ask her questions...
about her future plans and if she's got any plans.
That's why you want to go abroad and be comfortable.
But once you're there, it's less than ideal, right?
That's right.
Don't you have anything you want to do?
I don't know what I want to do.
It's fun to go abroad and try new things,
but I give up easily because I lack tenacity.
(It's like the Mobius strip.)
Do you feel happy when you go abroad?
Not necessarily.
What is it then?
For example, I went to Mexico to work as a translator...
at a Korean company.
I had to translate technical terms,
but my language skills weren't at that level...
because I hadn't studied for many years.
I got stressed out and received criticism from my boss.
I began to have low self-esteem,
so I quit early.
(Frustrated)
No one continues to work because every aspect is lovely.
Even when things get stressful, taxing, and frustrating,
people persevere.
Do you know how much money you spent on traveling...
so far?
I spent 30,000 to 40,000 dollars on airfare alone.
- It must be 40,000 dollars. - That's right.
30,000 to 40,000 dollars.
You must have spent money once you reached the destination.
It must have added up to a considerable amount.
Why didn't you start a business in Korea with that money?
That would have been better.
I didn't know this would go on for 10 years.
If she had gotten a chance in Korea,
she wouldn't have gone that far.
You can't blame her for everything.
I think she had many chances.
She simply abandoned them...
and ran away.
Can you give us an example?
"H" University was hiring.
The competition was 180 to 1, but she got the offer.
(She got the offer.)
- That's incredible. - She should have accepted it.
- However, - I'm sure she worked for years.
she decided that it doesn't suit her after only two months.
Then she sent an email to our parents and ran away...
to another country.
(Why did she do that?)
Other employees were exceptional.
It gave me low self-esteem.
I wondered, "I'm so lacking."
"How did I get the job?"
You should have worked harder to become more skillful.
That's right. You should have used that opportunity.
When the others wondered how you got the job,
you should have acted like you come from a rich family.
(You should have acted like you come from a rich family.)
You should've made them say things like "I'm sure she had connections."
"She must be the chairman's daughter."
She gives up too easily...
even when she gets a hard-earned opportunity.
Someone didn't get the job because of you.
(The opportunity she abandoned was someone else's hope.)
- That's right. - Don't you think about that?
If I can't go on a trip when I want to,
I go to the airport to write lyrics.
The airport.
I find ways in Korea.
It makes me feel refreshed.
- That's right. - I get to learn things too.
Everyone endures that way.
- That's right. - Everyone endures that way.
I sympathize with her...
because I was exactly like her when I was in my 20s.
I prepared to join the police...
and the office of the presidential security.
I also worked at Namdaemun Market...
and went to New Zealand for four months.
Everything was hard and nothing seemed to suit me.
I felt the same things.
I thought hard and realized that...
working out is the only thing I can do.
Afterward, I could persevere.
If you persevere once,
- you can brave through all. - That's right.
It seems like she never tried.
(It seems as though she never tried.)
As an older sister, what's the hardest part?
When she is at a dangerous place,
I become worried about her well-being.
When something happens abroad,
I capture the news screen and send it to her.
Then she goes, "I'm doing fine on my own."
"Don't worry about me."
It's frustrating for me as well.
(My goodness.)
I'm sure dangerous things have occurred.
When I went on a backpacking trip to India,
I met a strange guide.
He said that he never kissed his wife although he was married.
He asked me to teach him how to kiss.
- What? - He followed me and asked me...
to teach him how to kiss.
It was scary...
because he followed me to the hotel.
That's dangerous.
Luckily, nothing else happened.
That was the scariest incident.
- I'm glad that she is still alive. - I know.
Aren't you worried despite such an occurrence?
There hasn't been a big incident.
(There hasn't been a big incident.)
(What is she saying?)
It will be too late once a big incident occurs.
It should never happen.
Once a big incident occurs, it will be too late...
to take precaution.
(It will be too late to take precaution.)
Are you worried about your sister as well?
Yes.
When I say something,
she goes, "Stop it. It's my life."
"I refuse to have one job throughout my life."
Then she gets mad at me instead.
I call her Human Self-help Book.
She always says things like,
"Pain is a blessing to the youth."
"Say, 'I can do it' five times a day."
She says those things.
(She is unusual.)
Then why can't she do it?
She is still immature.
She is young and unrealistic.
She has her head in the clouds.
When you see her challenge herself,
don't you admire her challenging spirit...
and think that she is sort of cool?
She does look cool...
when she says she found a job abroad.
However, she stops looking cool after three months...
because she comes back all the time.
(She always comes back.)
She comes back before she begins to look cool.
She looks cool when she finds a job abroad,
- but it stops when she comes back. - Yes.
(It's frustrating.)
I'm attending a college of education.
My dad always tells me...
not to live like her.
He pressures me...
into getting a teaching certificate.
I want to have different experiences,
but my parents stop me with talks of my sister.
I feel like she is blocking my path.
(The second daughter is a burden to the family.)
I wonder what her brother-in-law thinks.
- Hello. - Hello.
(Bright and happy)
Do you understand your wife's worry?
Yes, I think it's a worry as well.
My sister-in-law goes abroad so often...
that I'm still awkward around her...
despite having been married to my wife for eight years.
- You don't see her often. - No, I don't.
Thankfully, she came to our wedding.
- He can't talk casually to her. - In a sense,
it's important to feel happiness in your daily life.
It's too bad she can't feel that...
with her family.
What would you do if she was your sister?
(What would you do if she was your sister?)
I don't want a sister like her.
(His answer is stern.)
"I don't want a sister like her."
(He denies her existence completely.)
"I don't want a sister like her."
- "I don't want a sister like her." - You don't want a sister like her.
(Thank goodness she is his sister-in-law.)
Doesn't she date?
Hasn't she been in a relationship for 10 years?
Since she gets lonely easily,
she always sees someone...
every time she goes abroad.
(She always had a boyfriend.)
- I see. - I knew it.
- She falls in love fast. - She's lonely.
She falls in love fast.
She is impulsive, impressionable, and quick to fall in love.
When she went to walk Camino de Santiago,
she fell in love and started a relationship.
She dated an American man in China.
She said that she will marry him and brought him to Korea.
To talk to him,
I started to take an English class at 7am.
Why did you do that to your sister?
For goodness' sake.
However, they broke up after two months.
It was exhausting for me.
She wanted to talk to her future brother-in-law in English.
She is so nice.
She even took an English class.
When I find a nice man...
who is on the same page as me,
I fall in love very quickly.
Has the relationship ever lasted long?
It lasted long when I dated a Korean man.
Some relationships lasted only a month.
(I can't stand how fickle she is.)
Are you planning to go abroad again?
For a while,
I plan to stay in Korea and settle down here.
Your sisters don't believe you.
They know you will leave tomorrow...
if something catches your attention.
The production staff consulted...
a specialist ahead of time.
The specialist said...
(Adult ADHD)
she could have adult ADHD.
She shows three symptoms.
First, she is hyperactive and travels a lot.
Second, she continues to make impulsive decisions.
Third, she is inattentive.
That sounds like her.
The specialist said that...
having a job that requires moving around a lot in Korea...
- will help her. - In Korea.
She has to find a job that won't bore her.
I wonder what that could be.
(She has to find a job that won't bore her.)
Many people in Korea are averse to talking...
to a psychiatrist.
I don't think it should be that way.
I talk to a psychiatrist regularly.
- It's good for your mental health. - It helps me a lot.
We can't send all of our clients...
to psychiatrists. We'll have no patients.
We can solve most problems for free.
(Come to Hello for free consultation.)
Please say what you want to say to your sister.
I hope you would use this opportunity...
to change. I really hope so.
I'm worried about Mom and Dad the most.
That's right.
Dad had an operation last year due to his heart condition.
He's still taking medicine and recovering.
Well...
(Thinking about her dad makes her tear up.)
- She's emotional because... - It's Dad's lifetime wish...
to travel the world.
He still has to work in order to support us.
Even after retirement, he can't enjoy his life.
I hope you would steel your heart...
and settle down this time.
Da Hyun has a good heart.
All right. Let's start with Ea Na.
- Is it a worry or not? - Is it a worry or not?
Straighten the spine of your dream...
and look back on your older and younger sisters.
I also think it's a worry.
I hope you would get a job and save up money...
to go on a trip with your entire family.
That's a good idea.
I think it's a worry.
I don't think it's a big worry.
- You don't think so. - No.
It takes courage to give up.
I am sure you will resolve the situation.
If you think it's a worry, please press the button.
(What does the audience think?)
- In 5, 4, 3, 2, 1. - In 5, 4, 3, 2, 1.
Stop.
Please say a few words to your family.
Do you want to do it in Spanish?
(I want to stop now.)
I will come to my senses...
and see something to the end.
I am very apologetic and grateful.
- I love you. - All right.
- All right. - Lastly,
please send a video message...
to your dad.
Make a promise.
Dad, you struggled a lot...
because of me. I felt so bad that I cried at times.
I am so sorry that I lived this way for 10 years.
I will be sure to see something through...
from now on. Thank you. I love you.
All right.
How many votes did the worry get? Let's see the result.
(The result)
"The Nomad Woman".
Will it get over 100 votes?
144 votes?
124 votes.
(124 votes)
"I Didn't Make Him Do It".
Hello.
I am a man in my 30s who runs a restaurant in Seoul.
Three months ago, I hired a trustworthy employee.
"I will work hard as though I am the owner!"
He was nice at first. However...
"Good work, everyone. Let's go home."
"No. I will work some more."
"Please go home."
He hasn't stopped since.
"Would you please go home?"
"No. I will close the restaurant. Please go home."
"Thank you for your hard work."
He never goes home. He does his job,
cleans the restroom, puts away the ingredients,
works at the kitchen, and does other employees' work.
You might think that I am complaining for no reason.
(Ringing)
"What's going on? It's 3am."
"I have something to report."
"I analyzed the reason why the sales dropped this week."
"Can we talk about this tomorrow?"
Every day is a torture.
Please stop my employee from being so overly passionate.
He is the master of reading these worries.
Ea Na fell for the way Tae Gyun read the worry.
It was so real.
Seriously.
How fascinating!
I would love to have an employee like him.
Ea Na, how would you feel?
I would be scared that his ambition would swallow me.
You would be scared of his ambition.
- It might swallow the owner. - That's right.
It's not the kind of ambition I can handle.
I would be burdened by it.
I run a small gym in the countryside.
- Then you must have employees. - I also run a coin karaoke.
- You must have a lot of employees. - That's right.
A good employee changes the entire establishment.
I am so envious. If this is a worry,
I want to hire the employee instead.
I would love to have an employee like him.
Even though I introduced the worry,
I am willing to hire this employee for my chicken restaurant.
- I said it first. - Anyone would want him.
(Proud)
Let's meet the restaurant owner. Please come on out.
(Who is worried about an overzealous employee?)
(Jang Hyuk Soo)
I wondered, "What is Park Hwi Soon doing here?"
I get that a lot.
He looks cute. Please introduce yourself.
I am the owner of the restaurant that serves fish the visitors catch,
- Jang Hyuk Soo. - Welcome.
(It's nice to meet you.)
Are you really worried about your passionate employee?
- I can't sleep. - His eyes are...
- bloodshot. - I stayed up all night yesterday...
because he didn't go home. He promised to go home early,
but he stayed until morning.
The hours are from 2pm to 2am.
- It's open for 12 hours. - He doesn't go home.
He goes home at 7am.
- The restaurant closes at 2am. - That's right.
- Do you mean 7am? - That's right.
- Why? - Then he comes to work at 10am.
- The employee does? - Yes.
How many hours of sleep does he get? Three hours?
He gets three hours of sleep.
Then there is the commute.
The commute takes an hour and a half.
Does that mean he only gets an hour of sleep?
He only changes before he comes to work.
Sometimes, he smells. He comes to work on his day off.
On his day off?
The restaurant is open six days a week,
but he hasn't taken a day off for three months.
- My goodness. - He doesn't rest.
At first, he was pale.
- Do you mean the employee? - Yes. He turns darker every day.
(He has the biggest dark circles.)
Maybe you give him too much work.
- I don't do that. - You aren't a mean employer.
Every branch has employees for making sashimi,
attending the fishing hole, cleaning, and all.
- What does he do? - He is responsible for promoting...
and inviting company retreats and such.
- Company retreats. - However,
he does other employees' work.
It's not his job, but he cleans the restroom in the morning.
- It's not his job. - No.
When other employees want to smoke, he buys cigarettes for them.
- Does he use his money? - He uses his money.
We order ingredients.
To save 50 cents or a dollar,
he drives to Noryangjin Fish Market and Garak Market...
before he comes to work.
I tell him to go home countless times,
but he only goes, "I will. Please go home."
- You must have loved it at first. - Of course.
I bet you did at first.
- "This employee is the greatest." - Now, you don't feel that way.
Now, I feel bad.
When he calls me in the middle of the night, I go,
"This is Jang Hyuk Soo speaking. Yes, I was awake. I am working."
I end up lying.
- The employee works all the time. - It's a big worry.
That's why you are here.
Let's meet the passionate employee. Hello.
Hello.
(Who is the overzealous employee?)
Do you have time to be here today?
I should leave early.
- Are you worried about work? - Yes.
Do you understand your boss' worry?
If an employee works hard,
shouldn't the boss be happy?
You haven't gone home for a proper sleep for three months.
That's burdensome.
There is a baby at home.
- And I don't want to wake him up. - Are you married?
Yes.
(They can't believe their ears.)
Sometimes, I sleep in the car so that I don't wake him up.
How old is the baby?
- He is 18 months old. - My goodness.
In that case, I think...
you have an ulterior motive.
Perhaps that's why you don't go home early.
- No. - No?
- Why do you work so hard? - Seriously.
When I work, I work as if I am the owner.
(I work as if I am the owner.)
You aren't the owner.
Hyuk Soo doesn't want you to think that way.
Seriously.
He is afraid you will take over.
Can you tell us your daily schedule?
At 10am, I come to work...
and buy the ingredients. Then I go to the restaurant...
and check the cleanliness. If the fishing hole is dirty,
I clean up. Then I check the kitchen,
clean up the restroom, and serve food with other employees.
I cut sashimi. I also work at the counter.
Hold on. Hold on.
I think they are here to promote the restaurant.
He claims to clean every nook and cranny.
Hyuk Soo said you are responsible...
- for promotion. - I do that as well.
I want to be acknowledged as a good employee...
by my boss and coworkers.
That's why I work hard.
There is a woman who only travels.
Why don't you teach her how to work?
Hyuk Soo said you work on your days off too.
- That's right. - Why do you work...
- on your days off? - Why do you do that?
I stayed home on my first day off,
but I couldn't help but think,
"I have to do this. I haven't done this."
That's why I go to work on my days off.
You said you want to earn your boss' recognition.
Your boss is suffering.
- He is exhausted. - He wants you to go home.
If you want your boss' recognition,
you should listen to him.
I don't want him to suffer.
He is suffering because of you.
He is the head of the restaurant.
The head shouldn't suffer.
I often tell him to go home and rest.
It's nice that you work hard,
but Hyuk Soo is becoming wary.
I don't want him to be wary.
I find it fun. I really enjoy working.
That's strange.
I feel pressured.
It's pressuring.
"I want him to be happy. I want him to rest."
"I hope he doesn't feel pressured."
Why don't you stop feeling pressured?
There's a labor hour.
- Right. - There's labor hour.
I can't pay him for overtime.
I told him not to work overtime.
I told him since the first day.
It's a happy worry.
Thanks to him,
the sales are going up,
and things are getting better.
Because he never leaves work,
I feel bad.
You don't care even if you don't get paid enough for your labor?
I believe I'm getting paid enough for my labor.
(I believe I'm getting paid enough for my labor.)
(How could there be such a precious employee...)
(in a world like this?)
I don't think it's a worry.
- It's such a beautiful story. - I know.
It's a difficult, yet a beautiful story.
One of the reasons I felt pressured...
was when I was just talking to myself...
that I need a water purifier and a printer.
I found a water purifier and a printer the next day.
"I thought you could use them in the store."
That's what he said.
You're copying him suddenly.
He gives everything he has.
An association or a group...
visits in advance for a workshop.
Right.
The company should provide...
their meals.
Of course.
He pays it with his own money.
- For the reception? - Yes.
- Why? - The food we eat in the store.
Why? Are you an angel or what?
I tried to take his card...
and cancel the payment,
but he ran away.
Goodness.
Because he also ate it. He said he's a big guy.
He ate a lot too.
- Try. - He's a fisherman.
- Fisherman? Oh, he likes fishing. - He's a fisherman.
- Gears mean a lot to fishermen. - Right.
His gears are expensive.
He left his fishing rods in the store,
and gave supplies to customers.
- His own supplies? - Yes.
Some of them got broken.
I felt bad, so I transferred money to him.
He transferred the money back to me a few days later.
- He transferred it back? - Yes.
He would feel offended.
- He wouldn't take it. - No.
I don't think it's right to do something the company didn't ask,
and charge the company for it.
- How much was it? - That also sounds right.
How much was it?
It was around 200 dollars.
All the gear he left were worth a few hundred.
If you add everything. They aren't just fishing rods.
There are motors and stuff.
I feel bad.
I can't even pay him back as much.
- It's like an old tale. - I know.
Do you know the story of brothers...
- who kept giving their rice? - I know. For each other.
They kept giving it to each other.
Good stories never end.
- Excuse me. - Yes.
Are you nice to your family?
I try my best, but I don't think it's good enough.
- See? He goes home late. - See?
I'm sure his wife is more worried...
than he is.
Isn't it really hard to take care of a 18-month-old?
- I know. - What does your wife say?
She works and takes care of the baby alone.
- She works too? - Yes.
Goodness. That's too much.
I feel bad for my wife,
but I feel bad for my son the most.
My wife picks him up after work,
so he's the last one to stay in the daycare.
(His son waits for a long time in the daycare.)
Doesn't your wife complain?
She asks if it's really necessary,
but I want to be the best.
I want my boss to approve of me.
If you want your boss to approve you, go home.
(Then you should go home.)
"My boss."
- So, you want to be the best. - Yes.
Did you give up on becoming the best dad and husband?
He could come to work at 2pm, right?
Yes.
But he comes to work at 10am.
You could spend more time with your child.
When I'm with my child, I can't stop thinking...
about what I need to do at work.
I keep getting nervous.
(This is pretty serious.)
You must feel bad for his wife.
You must feel bad.
I sent a long text to her.
- To his wife? - I try my best to send him home.
"If he doesn't listen, I want you to tell me."
I felt sorry to her.
(Don't be sorry.)
Other employees are here too.
- Hello. - Coworkers?
(Other branch manager and staff)
Let's start with the one holding the mic.
Do you understand your boss' worry?
Yes, I do.
He even comes to my branch...
to work.
Does he have to go?
He doesn't need to come to my branch.
He always calls around 10 to 11am.
He says he's in front of the store.
("I'm in front of the store" at 10am)
I have to go to work even though I'm tired.
If he notices a mess,
he takes everything out.
My staff and I...
have no choice but to do it.
- We feel pressured. - Right, because he's cleaning.
Honestly, I don't want him to come.
- You don't want him to come? - No.
You know,
Apink knows what it's like.
- I do. - When you're done,
Bo Mi says,
- "I'll practice for more." - Yes.
That's upsetting.
After the practice.
You should practice somewhere else.
Like a student who says he has a question after the bell.
- I know. - Right.
That sounds terrible.
I work in a different branch.
I see him every day.
(Uncomfortable)
How far is it?
It takes about an hour and a half.
It's an hour and a half away, but you see him every day?
Yes. When I first met him,
I thought he was the owner.
(It was enough to confuse him as a boss.)
Normally, it's just me and another guy...
working together.
He said he wants to spread flyers.
One employee should watch the store.
Right. It shouldn't be empty.
He kept giving him orders.
He gives orders.
But he never leaves.
Every time that happens, I think about running away.
One day, I couldn't take it anymore,
so I told him.
"I went home after sunrise and come back."
Then I have nothing to say.
- Did he really say that? - It's pressuring.
It's not that you hide it. You show.
I was joking.
- Even if you were joking, - How could that be a joke?
it pressures them.
I noticed...
if he becomes the owner,
his employees...
- wouldn't be able to handle it. - It will be tough to work.
He'd say what he'd gone through.
Business is business. When there's time left,
I believe they should be ready...
to greet customers first.
If the customer is not satisfied,
he won't be our customer.
Other employees take care of opening the store.
I see they lack.
That's strange.
(Please don't come.)
Who's next to the part-timer?
She's my wife.
- That took long. - That took long.
Why would you take so long to say she's your wife?
(Because I couldn't sleep.)
Actually I'm here to...
complain about my husband.
I've never seen the manager before.
So I'm here to see him.
- It's your first time? - Yes.
Look. Look at him.
You have a complaint about your husband?
My husband used to be a workaholic.
- Really? - Yes.
I have a 30-month-old and a 10-month-old.
- That's tough. - Kids want to see their father,
but since he wasn't home, they always cried to sleep.
It's a problem for both families.
The reason my husband hires people is...
to take a break.
He hired someone, but he sleeps less.
I wondered how much he works...
that my husband can't rest.
- She's staring at him. - She really wanted to say it.
He receives a call at 3am and 4am.
It wakes up the whole family.
In that case,
why do you call at 3am or 4am?
I thought he was working in that hour.
(That early?)
Where? At home?
I thought he was awake.
At dawn?
That's...
(Absurd)
That's solely your belief. Isn't that ignorant?
I thought the boss was busy.
He didn't sound like he was asleep.
He said he pretended he wasn't sleeping...
because it was embarrassing.
Right. I didn't know that.
(Absurd)
Does your family come first or work?
Family.
But it seems work comes first.
This is because...
I had a hard time in my previous work...
in terms of pay.
It was so hard that...
I left my wedding ring at the pawn shop...
for money.
It became a trauma...
that I try to do my best.
I think it comes from the trauma.
I know what he's trying to say.
You shouldn't be so obsessed with your family or work.
It's too much.
You're giving other people a hard time.
Don't be afraid.
Even if you sell sweet potatoes, you'd do it right.
Of course.
We know how passionate you are.
You should know how to control it.
First, I want to get recognition from my boss.
- If I get recognition from him, - You will if you go home early.
- I'll do my best to do my job. - Of course.
So I can start my own business in the future.
It looks like he wants to run his own business.
His boss must've gone through an emotionally hard time...
because he's a great employee...
- that every owner would want. - He's a great employee.
- He's such a good employee. - Exactly.
Also, the owner couldn't complain knowing that he has good intentions.
- That's why he came on the show. - Exactly.
(He couldn't stand it anymore.)
His face used to look much brighter.
His face looks much darker now.
- He doesn't work outside. - That's right.
I want him to come in and leave for the day...
at the regular time every day. That's what I want the most.
- And don't call me at night. - Don't call him at night.
Will you keep your promise?
- Yes, I will. - Don't call him at night,
- and go home at the regular hour. - I'll come in at 2pm...
and leave for the day after working for eight hours.
- Is that the regular hours? - Yes.
I'm disappointed as he suddenly changed his attitude.
He could work just one more hour.
- He's not flexible. - Why are you so rigid?
- Are you sulking right now? - Are you upset?
- Are you sulking? I knew it. - No, I'm not.
Ea Na, you go first.
He caused trouble only because he was over enthusiastic,
and I believe he has a bright future ahead of him.
- That's right. - Exactly.
I hope you work moderately and take better care of your family.
She's right. You have to take good care of your family.
First of all, there are so many victims.
"Victims"?
All right. Dong Hyun, do you still want an employee like him?
No, I don't. I thought...
it would be nice if he were working with me.
But I think it's a worry when I think of his wife and child.
- Right. - Take good care of your family.
What's the point of realizing your dream without your family?
I think it's a worry too.
If you think it's a worry, please press the buzzer.
(What does the audience think?)
- 5. 4. 3. 2. 1. - 5. 4. 3. 2. 1.
Time's up. Please say a word to your boss and colleagues.
- I think he got the most votes. - From now on, I will work hard...
in moderation, so my boss won't feel pressured.
Also, I won't make the branch manager and the part-timer...
feel uncomfortable anymore.
- Most importantly, to your wife. - Right.
Please say something to your wife. Look at that camera.
Honey, I'm sorry.
When you pawned your ring because we were going through...
a financial difficulty, I saw you crying.
I still feel so guilty about it,
and that memory keeps me going whenever it gets hard.
I'll be a better husband and a better dad.
I'm sorry.
Oh, dear. He's such a hard working bread winner.
Exactly.
How many votes could he have gotten? Please show us the result.
(The result)
"I Didn't Make Him Do It".
The last digit is five. I think he got a lot of votes.
(We heard a lot of buzzers.)
How many votes did he get? Show us, please.
(We heard a lot of buzzers.)
(What could be the result?)
("I Didn't Make Him Do It", 145 votes)
He got 145 votes.
- Many people think it's a worry. - Yes.
As a result, "My Face Makes My Life Hard"...
is this week's winner.
The winner will receive prize money. Congratulations.
Until the day we are all worry-free.
Hello will continue to counsel you. Thank you.
("Let Me" by Golden Child)